This is my American Journey

A July 4th Reflection from One Happy Immigrant

Back when I was in high school and college in the Philippines, I remember learning about the United States, its history, its rise to power, and its role in the world. I was fascinated. I never imagined I would one day live here.

History quickly became one of my favorite subjects. I enjoyed learning about different countries and their stories, especially American literature, culture, and how this nation grew through both struggle and opportunity. I used to picture myself walking the streets of this country, the image of the Statue of Liberty always stuck in my mind. I saw photos, read stories, and dreamed of seeing it all in real life… a place I had only known through pages and books.

In 2008, I moved to Thailand to teach English. I worked with Thai, Chinese, and British nationals. Everything was new to me, and the variety of accents was amazing, it was beautiful! By my second year, I was working alongside Americans. Let me tell you, the accents were definitely different! But I loved every part of it. We all came from different countries, with different backgrounds and our own “luggage,” yet we spoke one language: English.

Toward the end of my contract, I planned to return to the Philippines for good. But life had other plans. I met someone who would soon become my husband, and my stay in Thailand was extended for another seven months.

Eventually, I came to the United States, it was a blessing. In the beginning, everything felt complicated and overwhelming. I saw opportunity, but I didn’t know exactly what to do or how to start. I was unsure, and honestly, I was scared.

But my husband believed in me. He pushed me to try things I had never done back home.

Honestly, I experienced real hardship when I decided to pivot, it was incredibly hard. Even when I doubted myself, I knew I had to keep moving forward, because growth was necessary.

It’s grit and a positive mindset that keep me going.

It took me eight years to finally start chasing my dreams, even though the vision was still unclear. But that’s the beauty of starting: you don’t need to have it all figured out.

Since becoming a U.S. citizen, I’ve felt deeply grateful for the life and opportunities I’ve been given here in the United States. I’ve learned that race is not a limitation, it’s a story, a perspective, and an opportunity to grow in a place that values courage.

To anyone who’s ever wondered if they belong, or if they’re capable: you do, and you are.

Happy 4th of July!
Here’s to freedom, opportunity, grit, and a growth mindset, the values that keep us moving forward. 🇺🇸